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The countdown is officially on…

10 days and counting until Sulphur Springs Workcamp 2009. This year at the 3rd annual SSWC, 8 churches from the area are coming together to paint and restore 12-15 houses in the Sulphur Springs area. If you are a teenager or adult and you would like to be involved with SSWC 2009, please contact me as soon as possible. Time is running out for you to be involved in such an incredible, God-sized event. You will have a blast serving, laughing, being crazy, painting, scraping, singing, worshiping, growing, and being the hands and feet of Jesus.

Don’t miss out.

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On Saturday, I performed my first wedding ceremony. I had the privilege of marrying Nick Martinez and Caitlyn Shepard in San Antonio, Texas. It was a great ceremony and now the high school sweethearts have tied the knot. Here are some pictures and highlights from the day…

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(WARNING: POTENTIALLY GROSS, BRUTAL HONESTY UPCOMING.) Heather and I were getting ready for the wedding in our hotel room Saturday morning when I noticed that I had a rather large back zit that was more than ready to be taken care of. However, it was perfectly located where I could not reach without dislocating both my shoulders. Because I did not want to look Quasimoto, I asked Heather to take care of it. While she was in the popping process, I hear this loud, shrieking scream. Heather starts to freak out and says, “It popped right on my face!”

Welcome to marriage, Nick and Caitlyn.

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The wedding was beautiful. Here are some pictures…

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11 people from Shannon Oaks Church made it to the wedding to support Nick and Caitlyn. Heather, Linda, Elise, Kirsten, Emalee, Bailee, Emily, David, Jane, Rachel, and Danielle – thanks so much for being there. It meant the world to Caitlyn that you were there.

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(FINAL STORY) I must have done a pretty good job with the ceremony. After the ceremony, a lady came up to me to introduce herself. She asked for my card because she had a son who was going to be getting married soon and wanted to use me for their wedding. I politely had to let her know that I didn’t live in town and probably would not be able to do that ceremony. 

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QUESTION OF THE DAY: Have you ever spent 6 straight hours in a Panera Bread restaurant? I did on Thursday preparing for the wedding. Good times.

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Posted: May 21, 2009 in Uncategorized

Happy 5 year anniversary, Heather. I love you so much.

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This weekend I am performing my first wedding ceremony. I will be marrying Nick Martinez and Caitlyn Shepard Saturday afternoon in San Antonio, Texas. Caitlyn has been one of my interns the past two summers, and I was honored when Nick and Caitlyn asked me to be a part of their special day.

But I’ve got to be honest, I am really nervous. I am not really sure why I am because NOBODY (even the bride and groom) ever remembers what the minister says. Maybe it is because it is the first time that I have ever done a wedding. Maybe it is because I feel like I don’t know what I am doing. Maybe it is because I feel old marrying somebody else.

Here’s my game plan:

  • Keep it short and sweet (around 15 minutes).
  • Look good in a suit.
  • Attempt to be funny.
  • Attempt to be pseudo mushy.
  • Make people laugh.
  • Make people cry. (Yes, it will be a rollercoaster of emotion.)
  • Try not to imitate the minister from The Princess Bride (no promises).
  • If I can be half the man/machine/minister as Luke Norsworthy, I’ll be happy.

Any tips on my first wedding? I’m open for suggestions.

Here’s an amazing story from BEYOND BELIEF by Josh Hamilton:

There was a special-education student named Ashley Pittman who went to Athens Drive (High School) and worked as our bat boy/mascot. Ashley had Down syndrome, and he was one of the happiest people I’ve ever been around. He loved his job, and took it seriously. He dressed out in uniform for every game and came to most of the practices. I always enjoyed being around Ashley, and I considered him a friend.

One time Ashley came home with me for lunch and Granny cooked us some grilled-cheese sandwiches. This was a big deal to Ashley, and he was so appreciative you would have thought Granny bought him a new car.

We played in the state playoffs my senior year, advancing to the semifinals. We lost in that game, and afterward as we were riding home in the bus I noticed Ashley sitting by himself, crying.

I moved up to his row and sat next to him.

“What’s up, Ashley?” I asked.

He didn’t always understand why things happened on the baseball field, and for reasons known only to him he thought he was the reason we lost this game.

“I’m sorry, Josh,” he said. “I’m sorry I lost the game.”

This was ridiculous, of course. Ashley didn’t hit or pitch one ball, but I couldn’t put it that way for fear of hurting his feelings.

“Oh, no, Ashley,” I said. “No one person ever loses a game for a team. We win as a team and lose as a team.”

Immediately, Ashley’s face brightened. He stopped crying and smiled at me as the tears streaked down his cheeks.

“Josh?”

“Yes, Ashley.”

“Does that mean I’m part of the team?”

“Of course it does, Ashley. You know that.”

His smile turned to laughter. He reached over and wrapped his arms around me, squeezing me tight with a big hug.

For the rest of the ride home, if you had looked at Ashley you would have sworn we just won the state championship.

Beyond Belief

Most of us have heard the stories about Josh Hamilton. The former Major League Baseball #1 draft pick of the Tampa Bay Devil Rays. The best high school player ever. The best thing since Mickey Mantle. The drug addict.

I have even wrote about him on this blog (CLICK HERE TO READ).

BEYOND BELIEF  is the real life story of Josh Hamilton told by the man himself. In the book, Josh Hamilton honestly tells his life story from unbelievable, baseball phenom drafted #1 overall, to being hopelessly sitting in an abandoned trailer park trying to score some crack, to fully surrendering his life to God, to finally making an improbable return to Major League Baseball.

Beyond Belief is full of incredible stories that will stick with you for a long time. The legends of Hamilton growing up playing ball in North Carolina. Stories of what would seem like supernatural occurrences that took place in Hamilton’s life. And of course the thought that this man is now one of the best players in baseball yet alone walking the Earth. The story is intense and I had trouble putting the book down at all. In fact, I read this book in less than 24 hours.

The story is also an inspirational one. It seems that if Josh Hamilton can overcome what he has endured in his life and still able to achieve his dream, then anybody can. This book is his purpose. He makes it perfectly clear that his duty is to try to reach out to as many people as he can, to try to help, and to spread the Word of God.

There’s no doubt in my mind that the Josh Hamilton story will be on the big screen one day. I would advise that you read the book first. This isn’t just a book about baseball. This book is about real life. It’s about strength, faith, and overcoming the greatest of odds. It’s almost a miracle that Hamilton is where he is today. He’s where everybody thought he would be from the start. He’s a superstar in the Major Leagues.

Make no mistake about it, my favorite baseball team is the New York Yankees. That’s not changing. However, my favorite individual baseball player is Josh Hamilton. He can never make another all-star team; never hit another home run; never make an incredible defensive play; and never compete in another home run derby; and he will remain my favorite baseball player. That’s not changing.

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Stop whatever you are doing, drive to your local bookstore, and buy Josh Hamilton’s autobiography BEYOND BELIEF. If it is more convenient for you, jump on amazon and buy it there. Even if you are not a sports or baseball fan, you should check out this book that is more about the goodness and power of God than baseball.

WARNING: If you have life and this whole “living like Jesus” thing down, you might want to skip this post. If you are the other 99.9% of the planet, continue reading.

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I was reading the introduction to 1 Corinthians in THE MESSAGE, and the first paragraph grabbed my attention. It says…

When people become Christians, they don’t at the same moment become nice. This always comes as something of a surprise. Conversion to Christ and his ways doesn’t automatically furnish a person with impeccable manners and suitable morals.

Yep, it is true. You still get angry and lose your temper after being saved. You still naturally yell out curse words when you hit your shin on the coffee table instead of quoting a passage from Romans. You still are prone to lust if you look too much at the opposite sex. Your kids still tick you off. Your job can still be somewhat soul-crushing. You can still have addictions and strong holds that seem to run your life.

If you fit in the “I am still not perfect, but I love Jesus” category, God gave me a specific word for you today.

Salvation is a one-time event; transforming yourself to be more like Jesus is a process.

Transformation takes time. Transformation takes energy. Transformation takes effort. Transformation takes discipline.

Look at losing weight.  It is a process that takes a lot of time, energy, effort, and discipline. It is not sudden or drastic. We turn on the television and see people losing tons of weight in one hour of The Biggest Loser or see how taking pills like Hydroxycut is a quick fix way to lose that unwanted weight. When in reality, nothing short of a lot of time, energy, effort, and discipline will result in true change.

Transforming yourself to be more like Jesus takes the same time, energy, effort, and discipline. 

I wanted to encourage you today. If you don’t have life all figured out yet and if you still struggle, it is ok. You are not alone. Salvation is a one-time event; transforming yourself to be more like Jesus is a process.

Over the span of a week, I got to read (and finish) two books. That is a rare thing in my life because I hardly have the time or the attention span to read a book in that time-frame, much less two that quickly.

One of the books that I got to read was Driven From Within by Michael Jordan. This has a been one of those coffee table books for me.  (Coffee table book = where you put a cool looking book on your coffee table that people with either be impressed with or it is atheistically pleasing to look at. You probably do not have high intentions of reading these coffee table books, but they look cool.) 

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Most of you know Michael Jordan in some way. You may remember him as arguably basketball’s greatest player. You may remember him from his shoes, Air Jordan. You may remember him for his brief minor league baseball career in the Chicago White Sox organization. You may remember him from being in the 1996 classic movie Space Jam. You may even remember for being the guy in all the Hanes commercials.

I am a HUGE Michael Jordan fan. I grew up and started loving basketball during those prime Jordan years where the Bulls were winning championship after championship. At first, I liked Michael Jordan simply because of his basketball talent. As I have gotten older and learned more about MJ, I have become so intriguing with his drive, his work ethic, his competitive nature, his persistence of excellence, and his hatred for loosing. I am drawn to people like that because I think I have a little of those things inside of me.

Reading words and stories about what drives successful people intrigues me. However, this book surprised me. This postmodern-looking book – with its artwork, different fonts, no page looking the same, etc – reads like two stories in one book. One story talks about what is on the inside of Michael Jordan. What drove him. What made him the man, basketball player, and business man that he is today. The other story in this book is the story, history, and evolution of Nike’s brand Air Jordan.

There are some amazing quotes from this book about leadership and drive. I will probably do a blog post soon full of all the amazing quotes that I enjoyed from this book.

I fully recommend buying and reading this book if you are someone who either enjoys sports, someone who is a fan of Michael Jordan, or someone who wants to learn from people who seem to have an unbelievable drive to succeed. Overall, Drive From Within is a quick, enjoyable read with the message that hard work pays off with the added bonus of it also being a scrapbook on Jordan’s career and life.

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1. Do you have any coffee table books? If so, what are they?

2. What are some of the books you have read lately?

On a normal work day, I really enjoy going home to eat lunch and hang out with all three of my girls: Heather and my two dogs (Gaby and Kate). When I was there today, Gaby and Kate secretly pulled me over to the side and wanted me to share a Mother’s Day letter they wrote for their mom – Heather. They had been on the Internet this morning and read my letter to my mom and they were inspired. They told me that they wanted to write a letter to their mommy. Here’s their letter to Heather:

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Dear Mommy,

We just wanted to take the time to thank you for being the best mommy ever. We know that we are pretty much the most spoiled, diva dogs on the planet, and a lot of that responsibility comes down right on you. Thanks for giving us the lives we want – and frankly, we deserve. We have come quite accustomed to our way of life and you play a large role in that way of life. Frankly, we are completely dependent on you - largely because we have no thumbs. Anyways, we wanted to thank you for…

  • Giving us treats every time we go potty – something we would do anyways.
  • Giving us treats every time you leave the house – something you would do anyways.
  • Giving us the yummy pieces when you cut an apple.
  • Helping Gaby up on the bed when she’s too tired to make that big jump.
  • Taking us for walks where we pull you like a rag doll.
  • Letting us cuddle and act like 60+ pound lap dogs.
  • Picking up Kate’s poo when she can’t hold it any longer.
  • Grooming, bathing, and maintaining our hotness.
  • Putting up with Gaby’s slime.
  • Buying us trendy, cool collars.
  • Giving us the occasional chicken bone.
  • Giving us the occasional Denta-bone.
  • Playing rope with us.
  • Giving in like a sucker every time Gaby sits pretty.

Honestly, where would we be without you?  It wouldn’t be a pretty site.  We love you, Mommy.  Happy Mother’s Day!!!

Love,

Gaby & Kate

Happy Mother’s Day

Posted: May 12, 2009 in Family, Life, People
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Mom,

I thought you deserved your own personal post on the blog (If you are reading this and you are not my mom, that’s ok, but the intention is for my mom.) I’m sorry that this is a couple of days late, life’s been a little busy. You may have heard these words before, but they are still 100% true.

I just wanted to thank you for being such an incredible mom.  Your unconditional love and support means more than you will ever know.  There are a few things in this world that I have never been able to doubt and my mom loving me was one of those things I could never doubt.

Before I end this letter, I want to thank you for…

  • Changing my diapers when I was a baby.
  • Tucking me in at night.
  • Leaving the door cracked or the nightlight on when I was scared.
  • Buying me Dinosaur and baseball sheets.
  • Reading Bible stories to me before bed.
  • Letting Dad buy all those baseball cards.
  • Letting me get my big sister in trouble.
  • Watching all those soap operas so that I had to go outside, play sports, and be active.
  • Making incredible fruit salad and sweet potatoes at Thanksgiving.
  • Christmas stockings!!!
  • Cleaning up my messes.
  • Letting me use you as the reason I couldn’t do something when I really didn’t want to anyways but didn’t have the guts to say that.  You never minded taking blame in that situation.
  • Letting me read to you after taking Lesley to SSMS.
  • Letting me go on my first date even after the Cutlas was wrecked and we had a rental.
  • Not letting me have a TV in my room.
  • Our Thanksgiving trip to Ensenada.
  • Always getting me what I needed and most of what I wanted.
  • Not making church optional growing up.
  • Loving and accepting my wife as your own daughter.
  • Showing me what it is like to be a hardcore baseball fan.
  • Being an awesome grandma to Gaby and Kate.
  • Most importantly, thanks for leading and pushing me towards to God.  By far the most important thing you have done for me is laying the foundation of faith that has completely transformed my life.

I love you, Mom.  Happy Mother’s Day.