Interesting Debate on ABC

Posted: March 13, 2008 in Life, Ministry, Spirituality, TV

Is America addicted to porn?   That is the question ABC’s Nightline asked during a recent broadcast.  You can go to and see a debate over that topic.  It is extremely interesting and insightful.  Note of caution:  this is over a national, secular broadcast so you never know their real agenda. 

Pornography is drastically affecting America and the church.  It is often the “dirty little secret” that is constantly being ignored and swept under the rug while it kills intimacy, marriages, and purity.  The porn business is a $14 billion dollar a year industry.  It is supposed to be designed for mature adults, but the reality is that it is killing America’s youth.  The average age of a porn viewer is between 12-17 years old.  The average age a person is first introduced to pornography is 11 years old.  The reason for these startling stats is because it is only a few clicks away now.  It’s not like 20 years ago, when you had to look under your dad’s mattress or go into the XXX store with a ballcap pulled down low to cover your face so nobody knew you were there.  Anybody with an Internet connection can have porn available in a matter of seconds without anybody knowing.

One of the best resources I have found that is fighting the fight against pornography and calling people back to God and holiness is  I strongly support these guys (one of the guys, Craig Gross, is on the Nightline debate mentioned above).  Check them out.

Whether you have kids or not, we have to be proactive about protecting our purity and intimacy in marriage.  Here a couple of practical suggestions that I recommend you put into practice immediately in your home:

  1. Put your home computer in a public area.  This definitely applies if you have kids.  Don’t let your kid have a computer in their room at home.
  2. Put some sort of filter/accountability software on your computer that monitors what websites are being viewed. has a FREE software for Mac and PC that is called X3 Watch.  That software is an accountability software that sends a weekly email to an accountability partner of what websites you are looking at.  The key is that your partner is somebody that will hold you accountable and you don’t want them to know you are looking at porn (I recommend your wife, your pastor, your mom, etc).

It’s time we stop sweeping this epidemic that is drastically affecting our churches, our marriages, our teenagers, and our culture under the rug.  Pursue holiness.  Pursue purity.

  1. I saw the debate. It was very interesting and somewhat entertaining. I thought the moderator was very good. Donny Pauling brought up some good points. I wasn’t too impressed with Craig or Jeremy’s responses to each other. I would have loved to have a credible sexual trauma therapist there to show just how bad the industry is and the statistics of how many sexually abused women get into the industry in the first place. It would have been great to have Dr. Judith Reisman there. Her psychological research in this area is amazing. To a world that cares little about sexual ethics (and has no basis for sexual fidelity apart from a God’s revealed will), one of the best arguments against viewing pornography is that it supports a vast industry that ultimately abuses and uses people in the worst way.

    Pornography stats are staggering:

    I appreciate that XXXchurch is making the pornography issue “safe” to talk about among churchgoers. I work for a company called Covenant Eyes that has been creating and distributing accountability software for the past 8 years. It is very rewarding to hear testimonies about people who have found themselves liberated in the context of accountability.

    I wrote a blog on our company blog site about comparisons between X3watch and Covenant Eyes software. Check it out if you are interested:

    God bless!
    Luke Gilkerson
    Internet Community Manager
    Covenant Eyes

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